As a sex coach, Kim recommends several books on sex and relationships. These books cover a range of topics related to sexuality and relationship wellness, including desire, communication, intimacy, and pleasure.

Sex Therapy Making Marriage Simple: Ten Relationship-Saving Truths
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt
Sex Therapy The Five Love Languages
Gary Chapman
Sex Therapy Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together
Tammy Nelson
Sex Therapy Rekindling Desire: A Step-by-Step Program to Help Low-Sex and No-Sex Marriages
Barry W. McCarthy, Ph.D. and Emily McCarthy
Sexual Intelligence Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex and How to Get It
Marty Klein, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Emily Nagoski Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Esther Perel
Sex Therapy Guide To Getting It On
Paul Joannides, Psy.D.
Sex Therapy Sex Matters for Women, Second Edition: A Complete Guide to Taking Care of Your Sexual Self
Sallie Foley,‎ Sally A. Kope, and Dennis P. Sugrue
Sex Therapy She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy The New Male Sexuality
Revised Edition
Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Coping With Premature Ejaculation:
How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner & Have Great Sex
Michael E. Metz, Ph.D. and Barry W. McCarthy, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Coping with Erectile Dysfunction:
How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sex
Michael E. Metz, Ph.D. and Barry W. McCarthy, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us
Felice Newman
Sex Therapy Sex and the Seasoned Woman: Pursuing the Passionate Life
Gail Sheehy
Sex Therapy Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
Betty Dodson, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Sex Tips For Straight Women from a Gay Man
Dan Anderson and Maggie Berman
Sex Therapy Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women
Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love
Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel Heller, M.A
Sex Therapy Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Sue Johnson, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Enduring Desire: Your Guide to Lifelong Intimacy
Michael E. Metz, Ph.D. and Barry W. McCarthy, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style: Sharing Desire, Pleasure, and Satisfaction
Barry W. McCarthy, Ph.D. and Emily McCarthy
Sex Therapy The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity
Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
20th Anniversary Edition
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
John M. Gottman, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World’s Largest Experiment Reveals about Human Desire
Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam
Sex Therapy Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
Tristan Taormino
Sex Therapy The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures
Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
Sex Therapy The Big Book of Sex Toys: From Vibrators and Dildos to Swings and Slings
Playful and Kinky Bedside Accessories…
Tristan Taormino
Sex Therapy It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living
Dan Savage and Terry Miller
Sex Therapy Manhood: The Bare Reality
Laura Dodsworth
Sex Therapy Passionista: The Empowered Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring a Man (Kerner)
Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Book Golden Men: The Power of Gay Midlife
Harold Kooden, Ph.D.
Sex Therapy Who’s Been Sleeping in Your Head: The Secret World of Sexual Fantasies
Brett Kahr
Sex Therapy The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse, Revised Edition
Wendy Maltz
Sex Therapy Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free
Linda Kay Klein
Sex Therapy The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Bessel van der Kolk M.D.